Tips for a successful night at Club Discretions.
This page is a little bit of reading, but the 5 minutes you take
might be the best 5 minutes you ever invest.
Most of it is just common manners.
First and foremost, NO MEANS NO.
It doesn't mean, "ok, maybe a little" It means NO. Respect it.
Going up to a table and saying "hi" never hurt anyone. If someone tells you
they aren't interested, say thank you, and walk away. If you
are an ass about it, everyone will know and it may hurt
your chances at meeting others. If you are polite, they
may think of a friend that you would be perfect for. We
all have different tastes and desires, it just simply means you aren't
theirs, that night.
When approaching a couple, never and I mean NEVER, wait
till one of them walks away and approach the one you want
to party with. Many couples view this as cowardly and will have no interest.
Approach them as the couple they are.
Also, when speaking with a couple, speak to BOTH of them. If you
make one feel left out, they make you feel left out later.
When people start partying in public, GIVE THEM ROOM. If too many
people crowd around them instantly, it can become claustrophobic
to some and they may discontinue the show.
On the wall, across from The View, is a message board. This is a great
place to see who is looking. Also a great place to let others
know you are looking. Don't be afraid to use it.
Be polite to others in the club. People of all races, ages, and sizes
come to the club. If they aren't your cup of tea, then a simple
"no" will suffice.
Respect other peoples space, as you would want them to respect yours.
Contact the staff if any issues arise right then and there. No one can
take care of a problem if you come up and tell them the following
week. The staff at Club Discretions is top notch and truly care about the
club and it's patrons. Also, if needing questions answered, they are
happy to help. They are the friendliest staff you
could ever ask for. Please show them your gratitude for their efforts.
Take care of those that take care of you.
Smoking. When sitting with others at a table, be courteous of
your smoke. Not everyone smokes and it can be really irritating
to some people's eyes and breathing. If you approach a table,
with others at it, and the ashtrays have been removed, take that as a hint.
They probably don't smoke.
Drinking. Many people drink to loosen up. If you need to get sloshed
to go to the club, just remember, it is very unattractive to others.
Have you ever seen an attractive drunk when you were sober?
Just drink in moderation. Please, don't drink and drive.
We want you to come back.
Wash your hands in the restroom. The guy/gal that sees you not wash,
might be the guy/gal of the couple you are seeking.
The bar has an area to get your drinks. Please use it.
It makes the barmaid's job easier.
All of our food is sealed packaging. In trying to keep our costs down,
please only take what you eat and eat what you take. Any person
caught taking packaged food home, will be removed and banned
from the club. Please help us keep our costs down.
Lockers and towels are provided for your use.
Locks for sale at a minimal charge.
Sex and money. This is a social club, it is NOT a brothel. Your
entrance fee gets you into a private club, that is it. No type
of sex for money is tolerated, this includes, selling sex, buying
sex, tipping girls dancing on stage, etc.
Certain rules will be strictly enforced. No cameras. No weapons
of any type. Cell phones are not to be used inside the club
(too many have those cameras on them now). No alcohol brought
inside. No law enforcement personnel. No media personnel. No drugs.
No fighting (let the staff handle the rare issues that arise).
No gang apparel.
If you are caught on premise with a recording device, it will be confiscated
and held, until Club Discretions has had someone verify no images are stored,
THIS INCLUDES YOUR CELL PHONE.
You will be held liable for any costs involved with such verification.
You can chat with other swingers and members at http://groups.yahoo.com/group/clubdiscretions/ . This is the only Club Discretions group for our club that is recognized.
This is a great way to meet others and plan a trip to Club Discretions together.
Of course the BEST way to meet other members is AT THE CLUB.
See you there.
If you have a tip, feel free to email
them to us from the "contact" page.
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